Most people are totally misunderstood and think or believe that love is an emotion and that the only way to “feel love” is through loving someone, something, or an outside thing.

Now, of course, I used to think that as well!

But after I finally have awakened my third eye and feel fully enlightened, I noticed that love is actually a state of my own being as what we are all supposed to feel at all moments.

And the reason most people don’t feel it all the time is due to their ego/mind activity going on inside of them, which is basically overthinking, thinking about the past or future, and not fully aware of themselves as the higher-self Being embodied in their body.

Yet, you’re lucky that you’re here because I’m willing to share with you some eye-opening information based on my own wisdom, knowledge, and personal experience!

Just read along!

What Is Actually LOVE?

According to Google, it claims that love is an ‘intense feeling of deep affection for someone or a great interest and pleasure in something.

So as you clearly see, I don’t believe in that!

Sure, you do feel love for someone or for something and that’s it, but that would be an egoic attitude in my point of view when our own natural state of being is to feel love all the time regardless of who it is, what it is, or anything of that.

The ego doesn’t know that the source of all energy is withing you, so it seeks it outside. – Eckhart Tolle


And that’s why I am a super huge fan of spirituality because it focuses on ourselves as our love for all human beings, not love for only a certain person or a thing itself…

Back to love!

I personally feel love all time, I feel the same love for my son as the same for my mom, my family, my ex-girlfriends, and the same love for my so-called “enemies” since I have totally forgiven them, therefore, I don’t think I have any of them anymore and the same love for any other beings including the same love for all animals, trees, and everything on this universe.

Yes, I feel the same love for all because I’m highly aware that we are all ONE with the source of the Universe called God.

Just because I am closer to certain people like my family or animals does not mean I personally love them more or have a greater “affection” like how the world sees it, and that is the reason I am in a complete state of love all the time, in all moments of my life!

Love is a state of being, and in that state, the ‘me’, with it’s identifications, anxieties, and possesions is absent. Love cannot be, as long as the activities of the self, of the ‘me’, whether conscious or unsconscious, continue to exist. – Jiddu Krishnamurti

Basically, when you get to this type of consciousness as living as a human being but like-God loving all, which is the same love you have for yourself should be the same as for all beings including all people, all animals, all things, and everything.


And are you saying you have the same love for material things and money?

YES! Why not?

But I’m not attached to any of it because the moment you’re attached to someone, something, or anything like towards money, then that is NOT love in my point of view, but more of an obsession or addiction which is a negative energy force.

Can you see my point here?

Money is actually a huge blessing, with money we all eat, drink, have a roof above our head, use money to help out others, buy presents, and live a fulfilling life!

So there is no reason why not to love money, material things, or anything at all, but again I don’t have the “love for the money” but pure love for ALL things, for all live beings and everything.

Therefore, I am in a state of love all the time, not just for someone or something!

Why I Don’t AGREE that Love Is an Affection?

Just so you know, this is my own personal opinion based on my own experience, knowledge, and God’s wisdom also called higher-self/universe/source/spirit/soul – whatever you want to call it.

I personally cannot agree that love is an emotion or an affection because again, if you only “feel love” or a certain emotion for a person only or for a thing, then that can’t be love but something else.

You’re basically attached to that person that you think you “can’t live” without that person or thing, and to me, that is terrible because once that person or thing is GONE, you’re totally left out with feeling miserable, and most likely depending on how strong the “affection” is, some people commit suicide.

So tell me, how is that real love?

It can’t be!

It’s just an attachment, a resistance that you have falsely believed that affection is “love”.

Love is not dependent on some other body, some external form, but a state of Being.


Now, believe it or not, I have had long-term relationships which most of them were around 3-7 years long, and I was once married for almost 2 years, and in all of my relationships, I had an amazing time with each one of them.

There were never fights since I am not really bothered when something happens, but most likely walk away since I know that silence is the best “revenge”.

Yes, I had exes that cheated where I caught them through their own cellphone speaking to someone else, which again, I left and they never heard from me again because I know that the moment I catch someone “cheating” or betraying me regardless of who it is, there is nothing that will change my mind.

Cheating and betraying is a choice, not a mistake regardless of what anybody says… Once a cheater, will forever be and I am not interested in these types of folks!

Sure, that is JUST ME, you may totally be the opposite and I don’t judge you.

By and by….. Love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Not that you are in love,… NOW YOU ARE LOVE. – Rumi

But as I believe, self-love, self-respect, and self-worth are much more important than feeling “affection” or an attachment emotion claiming it’s “love” for someone else.

You have to love yourself just as much at all costs regardless if it’s a long-term partner, a family member like mom, dad, son, or anything because once it’s gone, that “affection” of what you thought was “love” will no longer be there anymore and you’re left with resentment.

I am sure that’s not what you want!

Now, don’t get me wrong, you may have a love for a certain hobby, a sport, or something that you love to do but that would be called a passion to me which is love included.

Keep reading!

Conclusion: LOVE Is a State of BEING!

We all came to Earth called life to live in bliss, which is pure love and that is our natural state of being!

If you were to look at animals, they all are in this state of being called love. Yeah sure, they attack each other but that is for the only reasons which are to defend themselves from being eaten by hungry predators, or predators attack to eat or else they’ll die off hunger, or whatever it is but it’s completely part of nature.

Other than that, it is pure love living in the present moment!

A tree, plant, and all forms of things are also in this state!

Love is not a relationship, love is a state of being; it has nothing to do with anybody else. One is not “in love”, one is love. And of course when one is love, one is in love – but that is an outcome, a by-product that is not the source. The source is that ONE IS LOVE. – Osho

Due to the “imperfections” of human beings, unfortunately, the ego-mind exists in each one of us and that is the evil part of our human bodies.

If there were no ego/mind activity, we all would be living in this pure state of our own natural being which is love, in peace with each other and with all things with a heart full of joy!

I mean, the only way you will feel this is when you became awakened to this world full of egoic attitudes, where most humans are living a life based on their beliefs that they are their thoughts, perceptions, experiences, and so on.


And when you became enlightened, you will notice that none of that is who you are, but we are truly the soul/spirit/higher-self living in a human body who is completely filled with love, peace, and joy!

Again, it is your ego that doesn’t allow you to feel your own natural state of being because of your past events that happened to you, you believe you’re that and that is the reason why most people are living depressed or anxious about the future which is also an illusion, and therefore, you’re not living in the present moment!

Our egos are a false illusionary self that makes you think or believe that the “only way” to feel love is through “loving someone, something, or any form“.

But once you notice that and start seeking inside of you, you see that you are made of love, you are pure love, and that you love yourself just as much as you love the rest of the world.

That means you don’t feel an emotion or an “affection” only for a certain person, thing, or form, but pure love for all which is the same love for everything!

I love, because my love is not dependent on the object of love. My love is dependent on my state of being. So whether the other person changes, becomes different, friend turns into a foe, does not matter, because my love was never dependent on the other person. My love is my state of being. I simply love. – Rajneesh

In fact, most men may think that they will love themselves more if they had a bigger penis size or if they were a sexual beast in bed to turn on their partners and have the best sex of all time.

Sure, that does increase our own self-esteem, and self-confidence but not real self-love since you should love yourself for the way you are, the way you were born and made to be who you are!

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