In order to be happy and successful, we all have to be aware of who our true friends and real family members are!
If you don’t know, whoever you hang out with will either lead you to success (positive) or to a lower life (negative).
So therefore, who you spend time with is who you become!
That is because vibes/energy doesn’t lie. I have had several friends and some family members that I thought were appreciating me, but there was the complete opposite.
There is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some people come into your life to test you, some to teach you, some to use you, and some to bring out the very best in you. – John Geiger
One of my “best friends” in the past, I trusted him so much that he betrayed me and did a very well plan to steal my truck and actually took thousands and thousands of my money from me.
However, I had forgiven him and was willing to only send him love, forgiveness and gratitude thoughts/feelings all the time regardless of what he did to me, where I ended up forgetting all about him, and in a few years later, he ended up paying me back the $200k that he owned me.
Now some of my family members have been fake with me as well who were only using me in the past!
And I’m here to show you how to watch out for these type of people and what you should do because I’ve been there before.
How & Why We Are Who We Have In Our Lives?
In today’s world, there are too many fake people out there!
Not a lot of people want to see us doing better than them, and that’s a fact.
People may seem so friendly, faking a smile, and lovable, but in reality and deep down inside of them, they are hating you and have so many negative feelings inside of them towards us.
Me, all of the people that have been around me in the past regardless of their intention towards me, I only have been real, honest and always looked forward to helping them out in any way that I could of…
But most of them, I’m talking about 95% of them was only using me and taking advantage of me, my kindness, my money, and even the things I have.
Yet, at this time, I had no idea what was going since I had no knowledge about the law of attraction and how our body’s energy works.
Never trust someone who has let you down more than two times. Once was a warning, twice was a lesson, and anything more than that is simply taking advantage. – Unknown
I literally had no idea that these people, friends, and including some family members were draining my energy, and therefore, I seemed to have a hard time trying to be successful.
It’s true that friends, family and people have a great percentage of impact in all of our lives. We are influenced by the people’s attitude.
Fast forward to today’s date and age, all of them that did me wrong or the ones that I have noticed that they were only fake towards me, all I did was block them out of my life, I blocked their numbers, blocked them on my personal social media accounts, forgave them and forgot all about them.
Believe it or not, these people were the same ones that I did every possible thing to help them out! Some of them, I give out some money to help them in their lives.
And unfortunately, it’s true that the closest people in our lives are sometimes the worst ones…
People don’t even like themselves. So why would you care if they don’t like you.
NEVER BLAME anyone in your life. Good people bring you HAPPINESS, Bad people bring you EXPERIENCE.
But I’m not talking about dad or mom, but cousins, aunts, uncles, so-called best friends, close friends, colleagues at work, and so on.
So my point here is that when these negative people were in my life, there was hardly any success where I only had been struggling a lot and was completely unhappy and depressed!
Their negative energy got me all the time, and the only way to actually get rid of this negativity was by blocking them completely out of my life, and I did, which my life seemed to turn around instantly and I noticed more success, positivity all around me.
Your heart generates an electromagnetic filed that reaches several feet outside of your physical body. People can feel you.
In today’s date and age, I only have about 5 true and real people, which are, of course, my mother and father who were always there for me, who believed in me and always had real love towards me, the mother of my child who she was always there for me as well during my hard times, and even though we are no longer together, I still help her out a lot, and the rest are my close multi-millionaire friends.
Surround yourself with people that reflect who you want to be and how you want to feel, energies are contagious. – Unknown
How to Notice Who Are the Real People in Our Lives?
Believe it or not, it’s not that hard to notice who the real people are in our lives that really look out for us and who highly appreciate us in their lives with a heart full of love, positivity, joy, and gratitude.
But of course, it’s easier to notice them when you’re in harmony with yourself because since your energy is always elevated and when someone is around, you either feel more elevated or drained.
This could be your partner, close friend, a family member, colleague or whoever in your life and here are some of the signs to look out based on my own experiences;
- When they are around you in person, do you feel more lifted up or down? You can tell by your own feelings. I have a successful millionaire uncle which when I’m around him, I feel more joy, peace, and love. But when I’m around my negative aunts, I feel like my feelings are pulled down like some type of heavy negative drowning feelings inside of me.
- How are their lives going? Are they always complaining, worrying too much, seeing faults in everything, and unsuccessful? If they are, then you can rest assured that they are most likely draining your energy as well since they are pessimists. But if they seemed to be on the right path with more positivity, then it should be okay, unless they’re hating on you.
- When you mention to them about a great idea, a goal, or a dream that you want to achieve, what do you notice in them? Do they seemed happy, excited for you, and telling you that you’re going to really achieve them, or do they seem unhappy, faking a smile, and showing a negative expression? Successful people want you to achieve the same success or even better than them, but low life people will not want you to achieve any success whatsoever.
- Are they judging, gossiping, criticizing, lying, disloyal, disrespecting, using you, putting you down, and saying negative things about you or of others or even having a hard time maintaining a relationship? If they are, then right away you should know that they are draining your energy as well.
- Last, are they dwelling on the past experiences, always watching the news, negative channels, and not looking forward to a better future, are they depressed, always anxious, focused on the problems and not the solutions? If they are, then get rid of them.
Remember, their lives are not your life, and if their lives are low or if they are depressed, the only thing you can do is to send them love, positivity and gratitude thoughts, and feelings towards them.
Stay away from negative people. They have a problem for every solution. – Albert Einstein
Any friend that turns into an enemy has been hating since day one. – Tupac Shakur
You are not responsible for their lives or their wellbeing, you’re ONLY responsible for your own self.
And the main key here is to be 100% aware of everything, of all, of what’s going on, be aware of how they act around you and be aware of their energies because energy is contagious!
What To Do? – Final Conclusion
If you really want to protect your own energy and in order to be successful in your life, you have to get rid of them at all costs!
It doesn’t matter if it’s a “best friend” from an early age, if it’s your spouse/wife, girlfriend, a family member, or whoever it may be, you must get them out of your life.
Love is not a relationship with someone, love is a way of life with everything.
Now if it’s truly a family member, just get away from them and try your best not to be near them or talk to them too frequently, because their energy will get to you!
Trust me, I have had some family members that I love so much but I had to make this choice in order to protect myself, in order to grow in life, and become the successful person that I am today.
Protect your spirit from contamination; limit your time with negative people. – Thema Davis
Cutting people out of your life doesn’t mean you hate them, it simply means you respect yourself. Not everyone is meant to stay.
Girlfriends? Yes, I had a few that left due to this reason because what is going to happen is that your life will be at the same level or worse than theirs.
You can’t grow with negativity around you, it just won’t happen!
If it’s some co-workers, colleagues, or whoever, try to stay away from them at all costs! Don’t be near them, talk to them or any of that. Just ignore them!
When you’re up in life, your friends get to know who you are. When you’re down in life, you get to know who your friends are. – Unknown
And here’s what you should do!
The only thing you should do to help them out is by a self-healing prayer here to send them forgiveness, love, and gratitude.
Other than that, there is not much that you can really do. You can’t help them by trying to convince them to change their own self or their lives because it just won’t happen unless they actually choose to and be committed to really change who they are.
Yes, you could and should show them this page or this #1 alpha male website that I have created to change the world because if they manage to change from negative to positive, then you may and can keep them around your life.
BREAKING NEWS: You need to hang out with people that fit your future, not your past.
Just so you know, you should not give them money like I did because that would only make it worse.. Trust me, I gave out a lot of money in the past and all of them only tried to get more and more money from me by only using me and betraying me. Sad but true!
So do that ho’oponopono self-healing prayer which is a non-religious prayer but more a forgiveness healing practice ‘prayer’ that will release any negative energy of them and yours as well.
That’s what I do, and some of the times, this effective self prayer may allow them to see themselves, be aware of themselves, and come to a point to actually change who they really are!
Other than that, act like you trust people but ONLY trust your self and your own vibes/energy.
Nobody knew. I was getting a new car until I pulled upon them. Nobody knew I got another job until they saw my work badge. Nobody knew I was moving until I got my kets…Moral of the story? MOVE IN SILENCE.
I have the created the life I want but it sure wasn’t from sitting around the couch watching tv and waiting for things to happen, but I changed my whole personality from a beta male to a complete alpha stallion king and it was through my daily routine/habits here.
When you click here, it will take you directly to my post where I show you everything that I do on a daily basis for almost a decade and I only have gotten more success than ever.
I completely changed myself by these habits and daily routine!
Sit with winners. The conversation is different.