Are you one of those that believe or think that time will heal any of your traumas?
Well, you’re completely wrong and all it actually does is make it worse…
Which means you might feel more pain and suffer much more when you think about such cases.
Believe it or not, there was a time that I was holding on to a serious trauma that someone did to me for a long time and these 5 years felt like a life-long and all it did was intensify what I felt deep down inside of me.
Luckily, I was able to become so awakened and had my third eye fully opened and now I have completely cured any of these negative traumas that I had been holding on to for so long and so, now I AM COMPLETELY 100% FREE!
However, you should feel lucky as well because I’m going to get into as many details as I can to help you fix whatever is holding you back in life!
But make sure you’re ready to forgive because that is the main key here!
The most important step out of karmic law is forgiveness.
Why Time Doesn’t Heal?
What I have to say is that whoever made up this false belief that time heals has no idea what they are talking about or has never been through a serious trauma to experience it itself!
I mean, if time really healed, don’t you think that the world would be a much more peaceful place to live in without any revenge?
Well, unfortunately, we all have the right to not believe in such nonsense and you shouldn’t.
The main reason that time itself doesn’t heal is that it actually intensifies the pain/suffering and makes us hold on to that conflict/trauma in a much tighter matter.
Therefore, there is no way it heals alone!
Just think about it, for someone to actually remove such trauma/pain out of their body, we all must do something about it and not just let it be as it is and think that time or the world will make us heal.
It just won’t and that is for many reasons!
For me, what time actually does is cause a serious attachment to that pain itself and in the long run, you’re basically letting it damage you much harder than it did in the first place since most of us either just can’t stop thinking about it or will either come across the feelings of it very often.
Forgiveness happens naturally when you see that it has no purpose other than to strengthen a false sense of self, to keep the ego in place. – Eckhart Tolle
Can you see what I’m trying to explain here?
So if you don’t do something about it, you’re basically letting it eat you up alive and cause you some sort of sickness/illness or even early death which does happen to a lot of people.
Yes, it’s very true!
How Time Doesn’t Really Heal?
Now it is important to know that time is just an illusion in my point of view. The future hasn’t come yet, therefore it doesn’t exist and the past is also an illusion since it’s just a memory.
And what I have to say is that it is NOW that you have to heal yourself, not wait any longer.
So what I’m trying to say here is that if you’re waiting for time to heal you, all you’re going to be doing is bringing the response of what happened to you towards others, yourself or God/Universe – whatever you believe in…. and that’s if you haven’t done so yet!
The truth is that the more you hold on to it, the longer and more powerful the attachment to it will be and that’s definitely not good…
Through forgiveness, which essentially means recognizing the insubstantiality of the past and allowing the present moment to be as it is, the miracle of transformation happens not only within but also without.
That is because once you’re feeling like a victim of someone’s else actions or of yourself, it causes a tremendous inner conflict within yourself.
Based on my own experience, inner conflict is a huge issue in all of us and again, time will never get rid of it but make it worse.
Trust me, your past will always hold you back and that means anything you do in life, you’re stuck with it.
How does that sound? Terrible, right!
Well, keep reading to fix it!
Bottom Line: ONLY WAY to HEAL Is FORGIVENESS!
That’s correct, you read that right!
Again, I can’t seem to stop telling you that time will never heal but make it worse. But the only thing that has the power to heal yourself, your inner conflict or trauma is through forgiveness which also means to shine your own consciousness light of awareness on that darkness of inner unpeaceful pain/suffering.
And how do you do it?
You have to basically just SURRENDER and ACCEPT the unacceptable and that means, that unacceptable becomes acceptable and therefore, you start to forgive yourself, whoever, or whatever it is that is causing you inner issues since you have surrendered to it and accepted it.
Yes, that’s the first thing you just have to do!
Don’t look for peace. Don’t look for any other state than the one you are in now; otherwise, you will set up inner conflict and unconscious resistance. Forgive yourself for not being at peace. The moment you completely accept your non-peace, your non-peace becomes transmuted into peace. Anything you accept fully will get you there, will take you into peace. That is the miracle of surrender. – Unknown
Sure, I know we all have “reasons and excuses” on why not to forgive, this and that, but it will never justify your own inner suffering in a good way but cause more suffering than ever.
If you don’t know, when someone suffers from anything, it is because they have not accepted it in this present moment and not acceptance is suffering/attachment to what happened.
This also means you accept the unacceptance of unpeaceful situations which transcends to peace and acceptance in the present moment = forgiveness.
When you surrender, you will basically let it go, let it flow like a river that has no resistance (unacceptance) to it and boom, you’re in peace once again since all you’re really doing is you’re forgiving yourself in this present moment…
Sure, it will not happen fully right away but the more you keep accepting it, the more you will start to forgive and be in a more peaceful and loving state of being than ever.
But if you still haven’t started feeling this inner peace which is like a relief, then I highly recommend you follow up with some ho’oponopono self-reconciliation and forgives practice that helps you release whatever you’re holding on to no matter what!
You basically will use it like this;
- First, you admit responsibility by SAYING “I’m sorry.”
- Second, you ask for forgiveness by SAYING “Please forgive me.”
- Third, express gratitude by SAYING “Thank you.”
- Fourth/Last, Give love by SAYING “I love you.”
And I would do something like this as an example;
- Whatever is in me that brings this response, BLESSED, I’m so sorry. Please just forgive me. Thank you for forgiving me. I love you with all my heart.’ Say this for 108x times as this is the sacred number to make it release completely out of you at all costs.
But you have to really mean what you’re saying and you can start by closing your eyes, then start remembering that situation that you can’t seem to forgive and say as I mentioned above or through your own words.
Yes, you literally need to have the intention to really forgive, to release it and be free of it forever.
Another example would be;
- Person’s name _____ BLESSED, I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.’ Remember to practice this for 108x times non-stop while completely focusing on that suffering and pain.
But how does this really work?
Well, the moment you focus on it and do all of that I mentioned, you’re basically shining your own light of consciousness/awareness on that inner conflict inside of you and what happens is that the darkness (unpeaceful) suffering will brighten up by your own soul/spirit/God’s light within you on it shinning and you’ll be in the light once again aka at peace.
Anything unconscious dissolves when you shine the light of consciousness on it. Once you know how to dissolve ordinary unconsciousness, the light of your presence will shine brightyly. – Eckhart Tolle
And that means you’ll feel instant inner peace and acceptance since you basically just surrender to what it is and accepted it = forgiveness regardless of what happened in the past.
Do it and I’m telling you, this works like a miracle! Remember, you can do it for anything in your life or for anyone that has “hurt” you since suffering is also an illusion just like how time is!
Therefore, time does NOT heal whatsoever, but forgiveness does!
Also, not to mention that after you have freed yourself out of this inner conflict, you shouldn’t think about it unless you’re trying to cure it as I showed above, or ever be near/around the person who has done you wrong.
I personally would say it’s best to forgive and be away from it for your own goodness based on my own experience regardless of who it is.
Forgiveness does not mean accepting the person back in your life but accepting what he/she has done to you and that’s transcending your own suffering into a peaceful state of being.
You forgive yourself by realizing that nobody can act beyond their level of consciousness.
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Don’t go just yet without leaving your comment underneath in the box section and let me know if this post of forgiveness has helped you in any way! I highly appreciate it.