Maturity is a big one that a lot of people are lacking in today’s world!
Now the majority of the population believes that maturity is measured by our age which is actually not at all…
I have seen teenagers act like grown adults who are highly mature enough than most adults, and I also have seen older adults act like young adolescent people and extremely immature.
Therefore, age probably has very little to do with it!
Maturity comes not with age but with the acceptance of responsiblity. You are only young once but immaturity can lasts a lifetime.
Sure, it is true that as we grow older, we can actually figure out how to become more mature, and also why we must be more mature than ever.
And I know a lot of people who have and that is a very good thing to do.
But if you’re still immature regardless of your age, you should check yourself out and see what you can do to change at all costs!
So this is where I’m going to get into deep depth to share with you more details on all about maturity right here below!
What Is the Meaning of Mature?
According to Google, the definition of mature is when someone is “fully developed in physical form/full-grown” or “having reached the most advanced stage in the process” which this second meaning is exactly what I’m talking about in this complete post.
It is basically in terms of our own personality, attitude, and behaviors which when you are mature enough, you don’t act like a child anymore but have the mentality and attitude of a mature, responsible, and wise adult.
Now according to some sources out there, one of them states that girls actually mature much faster than boys alone, and I totally agree!
And another source said that scientists believe that people don’t truly become mature when they turn 18 years old since some of them take up to their 30s to fully become mentally and emotionally stable.
And here’s an example of maturity from my point of view;
When you grab a green fruit, it has not fully developed yet. But when it turns to a different light color, then it has turned into a ripe “mature” fruit that is enough for us to eat.
Now in the insects and animal kingdom, of course, they do fully grow and get matured a lot more times faster than a human would…
But that’s not the case!
Maturity doesn’t always come with age, in fact, it’s deeper than age. It’s about the way you see and understand things. The way you consider others. The way you communicate. The way you react. The things you value. The things you entertain. The way you represent yourself and others as an adult. Everyone grows old, but not everyone is growing up. – Anonymous
How to Become More Mature?
The reason why most people don’t mature until they are in their 30s or if they ever do is that some of them have to go through certain experiences of years to build a responsible attitude to look at life quite differently.
While others on the other hand who do mature pretty fast such as in their teenage years or as soon as they become an adult are that they probably got the knowledge to change or maybe it’s probably due to DNA and genetics.
And to become fully mature basically means when you have a responsible state of mind by the way you see things and understand them.
Therefore a mature mind is super important in everyone’s life! And the ways to become mature are such as;
- Take 100% responsibility for everything
- Be confident in who you are at all costs
- Stop seeking attention = Main KEY
- Have completely self-control over yourself
- Stop complaining and making excuses
- Accept yourself for who you truly are
- Accept others for who they are as well
- Be clear about what you want in life
- Don’t get attached to others or things
- Stop wanting material possessions
- Don’t criticize, gossip, or whine
- Accept your weakness – flaws
- Keep your word regardless of anything
- Learn to balance your emotional
- Talk less, listen more, and see wisely
- Help others by supporting them
- Make sure to communicate clearly
- Learn to accept & Be firm about decisions
- Set goals and be persistent to achieve them
- Don’t let your comfort zone be part of your life
- Have integrity and be honest with others
- Learn from the mistakes you make – Lessons
- Take relationship more seriously & settle down
- Show respect to yourself and everyone else
- Don’t seek approval from others, but from yourself
- Stop taking criticism and rejection too seriously
- Content mindset and open-minded are important
- Have only matured and real friends – No fake people
- Don’t follow the crown but do your own thing
- Be optimistic about life in general regards of anything
- Always look forward to changing yourself for the better
- Make sure to have fun in life as if you were a youngster again
- Plus much more that you need to figure out on your own…
So as you can clearly see, there are many ways that you need to start looking out if you’re lacking maturity because all of that does count and it will only make your life much better than ever.
Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals, or self-worth. – Unknown
Yes, the more mature you are and become, the less you’ll feel disappointed and that way, you can actually live your life to the fullest by knowing what is right or wrong!
I mean, ever since I became more mature than ever, all I have to say is that my life has completely changed to a whole greater level.
Why You Must Be More Mature Than Ever?
Well, if you don’t then your life would be miserable because you would probably have a hard time trying to succeed in all areas of your life, especially if you have a clown immature attitude who doesn’t care about anything at all.
I mean, people, in general, look up to leaders and what I have to say is that all leaders are completely mature enough to lead themselves and people in the right direction.
Your AGE doesn’t make you MATURE but your ACTIONS and your WAYS do.
Leaders are not clowns, and that way, men have more respect for leaders, and women find mature leaders much more attractive than others who are not!
Remember, maturity is basically how you react to yourself, to others, and to things that are happening out there and if you are truly mature, you’re 100% aware that you don’t have control of what’s happening outside of you but only have control of your inner self.
And you should at all costs!
If you’re trying to control the outside world, you’re losing in life. But if you’re only controlling inside of you, you’re winning. Simple as that!
Now if you don’t know, life is all about evolving and there is never enough of anything in this world. That means we can be more mature every single day, and we never will know how much is more if we don’t seek it…
Yet, always remember to enjoy what you know and who you have become today, but always look forward to learning more since the more we learn, the more we earn.
But one thing I can surely say for a person who is truly a mature individual regardless of their age is that we all have 100% responsible for ourselves and for our whole life since it is in each one’s hands.
Age is just a number. Maturity is a choice. – Harry Styles
If you’re not where you want to be or not heading towards what you want, then you’re missing out big time and that means, you’re probably not mature enough to be able to get off the humanity trap to following the masses and go in your own way.
It is important that you check yourself out and see what is going on in your life. Now always remember that comfort zone does not make part of maturity, but the opposite and this is what a lot of people in today’s world are struggling with.
You have to be a mature leader of your own life, be the CEO of yourself, accept the unknown, and never get comfortable with your current lifestyle, and that way, you will always be heading out to success based on my own experience, knowledge, and wisdom.
Now one thing as a highly sexual man that makes me more mature is to be able to have sex at least 3 times a week but have the ability to last longer in bed without releasing my ejaculation too soon.
Yes, too many men don’t have the control to last longer in bed which if this is you, then you’re probably facing male sexual issues called premature ejaculation, and therefore, you need help!
Yes, you should know how important it is to be fully mature and have control over every part of you because if you don’t, then you’re probably not mature enough! Find out more here.
Let me know, have you become a truly mature person? Or do you feel like you’re still immature? I would love to hear what you have to say! It’s a pleasure to listen to you below.