Respect is a powerful word!
And if you have self-respect, that should mean a lot to you and to others as well.
It is true that you have to have self-respect first in order to get respect from anyone else. Perhaps, it’s also true that most people respect others such as their bosses, leaders, politicians, partner, etc but don’t respect themselves.
Is this you?
Now there are several ways to gain self-respect!
Don’t lower your standards for anyone or anything. Self respect is everything.
You just have to be aware and do some important things that will contribute to respecting yourself at all costs.
Therefore, I’m going to analyze and show you what you need to do to earn self-respect, and that way, you can also earn respect from others including men, women, and everyone else!
What Is Self-Respect?
You know, I’m the type of alpha male that if someone doesn’t respect me at all, then they have to get out of my life which right there, that’s 100% self-respect all the way.
So self-respect is respecting yourself first before expecting someone else to respect you.
It is to have confidence in oneself with honor, value, pride, dignity, integrity, self-assurance, self-depreciation, love for your own self, self-worth, plus much more!
To me, self-respect is such a powerful ability that not only the world will show respect to you, but you’ll be seen as a leader aka an alpha male that both, women want men with lots of self-respect and men will look up to you as you’re his “president” and he’s the “citizen”.
I mean, if you don’t have self-respect, who do you expect to respect you?
It will never happen! You have to earn it for your own self and that way, you can rest assured that people of all ages will give you the respect you deserve!
Treat people the way you want to be treated. Talk to people the way you want to be talked to. Respect is earned, not given. – Hussein Nishah
Self-respect is to feel proud of yourself that you’re assured that you’re the #1 priority of your life and people will definitely see that in you and give you props because you’re not like most beta males out there praising others to like them.
You like and love yourself first, then you love others. You don’t try to please anymore but only yourself.
Sure, it might sound “selfish” but if it is required you to be a little bit selfish if you want to look at it that way, then it shouldn’t bother you.
I would rather be 100% “selfish” to truly respect myself and have everyone else give respect to me than not be selfish and have many people disrespect me.
I care for myself. The more solitary, the more friendless, the more unsustained I am, the more I will respect myself. – Chalotte Bronte
I mean, I personally had self-respect since an early age! Back in my school days, people would have to respect me, or else, I remember that since I was not a real “alpha male”, I would have those bullying fools who disrespected me face me in either a school game, in the bathroom such as wrestling, or something go “earn/gain” their respect…
Sure, that’s not the way to go because that seems as if I was very competitive but I’m just saying…
Therefore, I recognize that it’s not what an alpha male would do and I’m aware of that because true alpha males are like lions and they don’t bother with a sheep giving opinions about them and so on.
So learn to earn self-respect first by not allowing others to disrespect you and you’ll have respect from most people!
Why We Need Self-Respect?
It is very important that we all have self-respect because if we don’t, people from all over the place will show no respect towards us, and that way, you’ll be running around full of fear, unhappy, miserable, and unpleasing mood based on what I know.
Self-respect is also key in all areas of our lives!
For example; At home, you have your family and if they are disrespecting you in any way such as yelling at you, making you do things that you don’t want to, cursing you out or anything that involves leaving you with a bad and negative feeling, then you’re not being a great parent/husband and you have to do something about it ASAP.
You can’t force someone to respect you, but you can refuse to be disrespected.
And the opposite would be if you have self-respect is that you wouldn’t accept them disrespecting you in any way, such as the very first time they yell, curse, say anything to hurt you, or try to force you to do something that you don’t want to, you actually face them and calmly sit down with them to speak with them as a real man/leader and let them know that that’s not the way to speak with you and that you want 100% respect in the same way you’re respecting them.
Show them you’re a man with big balls and kindly talk to them and let them know that respect is a priority in our house or else we can’t be around anymore regardless of who it is…
And therefore, your kids will see you as a great dad (leader), your spouse will see you as a great husband (man of the house), your brothers will see you as a great brother (tough big brother), and so on…
Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.
Here’s a story about me;
Back in the day, my dad was always a tough big guy and he always seemed to try to disrespect me many times as a teenager but when I got into weightlifting at age of 15 years old, believe it or not, I actually faced him one day that we did wrestle without hurting each other and guess what? He never disrespected me ever again!
BUT I’M NOT saying you have to do that, not at all and you shouldn’t, I’m just giving an example of what happened to me.
Another reason why you need self-respect is that if you get into business or anything that involves money and if you don’t have self-respect, people will not look at you as a leader and definitely might take advantage of you and probably use you as well.
But if you’re a real alpha male who has respect for yourself and for others, they most likely will give you the respect you need, and that way, you can be a great leader to lead people in the direction that you want for success.
The last reason why it’s important that you have self-respect or need it is that you’ll be a much happier person that knows your value and know your own worth!
It is true that self-respect folks out there live a much better-fulfilled life than those who seem to always be bullied by their own family, friends, or anyone out there.
Self-respect is a sign of strength/power and not a lot of people have it, which I highly recommend you start emitting to earn yourself respect before you try to get others to respect you.
How To Earn Self-Respect?
As you can clearly see, it all starts with YOU, not anyone else.
To earn self-respect, you basically need to man up, leave the “child” mentally that you may have to accept others disrespecting you and start posing as an alpha male with the right posture.
Ego is false confidence, self-respect is true confidence. – Naval Ravikant
So stand up straight, chest up, shoulders back, stomach tucked in, head high, chin up, eyes straight for eye contact with others, and not up or down which this is a sign that you’re a tough powerful dude that seems bigger than life who would never accept any type of disrespect from anyone regards if it’s a man, women, kid, or whoever.
And that would be the very first expression that someone will see in you since we all know that everyone judges a “book by its cover”…
But if you pose as a beta male, who is the average Joe with the complete opposite posture as I mentioned above such as by standing up with a bent back, shoulders to the front, stomach out, head down with eyes always looking down and afraid to show eye contact, then you can rest assured that people will see you as a weak guy which the clowns/fools who like to criticize others, they will most likely want to bully you, and women would also look at you differently in a negative way.
Don’t let someone get comfortable with disrespecting you.
Now the second part is a powerful confident mindset!
Yes, you have to have the self-respect mentality of self-worth, self-assurance, confidence, self-esteem, have honor and pride in yourself, and love yourself and the way you are which that’s the main principle key to knowing your value!
Now don’t get me wrong, you don’t have to look like an attractive best-looking guy out there to have this self-respect mentality because if you think you’re an “ugly” person but have this type of mentality, you’ll seem much more attractive than someone who does have the great looks but no self-respect at all known as a beta male.
Can you see what I’m saying here?
This is powerful information that you should take it seriously at all costs if you want others to respect you all the time.
I mean, women themselves like only strong, powerful, and confident men who are self-assured and have self-respect which they know to never disrespect us, or else, they’re in big trouble!
We’ll ignore them forever and have them chasing us begging us to accept their own apologies and that way, they would do anything we want to accept them back in our lives, and if we do accept, they will never disrespect us again whatsoever…
Does that sound? That’s right, yes it sure has happened to me a few times only.
And again, that’s pure self-respect there when you don’t accept someone to disrespect you regardless of who they are. They can be your parents, your spouse, your children, your boss, your friends, your colleagues, the person of your dreams, or whoever!
In fact, if it really is the person of your dreams, if you ever accept any form of disrespect towards you, I’m telling you they will never be your best lifetime partner because they’ll see you as a weak person, and that way, no one likes a weak person whatsoever.
Therefore, they will either keep disrespecting you until you man up and do something about it, or they’ll leave you hanging and forever ignore you.
But if you show that you don’t accept such nonsense, then that’s the best way to go!
Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy. – Robert Tew
They will either start respecting you more and see you as the real alpha male which increases your own attraction towards them or they may not like that you don’t accept them to disrespect you anymore whatsoever and they may feel unwanted and stop trying to talk to you…
Either way, you WIN because you know your self-worth and your self-value is much more important than anyone disrespecting you based on my own personal opinion!
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What about you, what do you do to earn self-respect for yourself and from others? Or are you a beta male who has been accepting others to disrespect you all the time without doing anything about it? Either way, don’t be afraid to give me a text with your response in the comment box below! It’s an honor to hear from you!