We all see it all the time where people are trying to compete with each other and comparing themselves with others, and guess what? Other people are not your competition!
The more you try to compete with someone else or a business company or whatever it is, the harder it will be to actually win because you’ll be creating more resistance.
You sure can believe that!
Me, I don’t compete, I don’t even look at what others are doing because it’s not my business, but I may only be “competing” with myself, but probably not because all I’m doing is getting better and improving myself all the time.
And this is why I am so successful!
Don’t compare your results to someone else’s. You can never be another person, you can only be a better version of yourself.
Now even, in sports, competition shouldn’t be what you’re trying to do…
If you were to actually notice, the most successful players out there, they don’t try to compete with anyone, they just do their best, focus on being their own best and become truly the best!
Confidence has no competition.
So let me share with you some of the things that you should do instead of trying to compete with others, and this can be in terms of business, sports, or whatever!
Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Try to Compete At ALL!
You know, competition shouldn’t even exist in my point of view! All it does is boost one’s ego.
As we can notice, there is enough room for every single person in this world to achieve whatever they want and to succeed in everything…
If you continuously compete with others, you become bitter, but if you continuously compete with yourself, you become better. – Unknown
The sun shines for all of us, and we all breathe the same air, we are made from the same source/energy of the Universe or as I may say, we are from one almighty God’s son/daughter.
So why compete with each other?
If you really think about it, it doesn’t make sense!
If it’s in terms of business, there are infinity opportunities and ways to make your company/business successful. One person could be doing one thing, but you don’t have to follow them, and you shouldn’t.
In fact, Apple and Microsoft technology companies did not compete with each other since Bill Gates actually has handled over and invested around $150 million dollars into Apple (biggest rival of Microsoft) back in the day to save it from going bankrupt.
“Bill, thank you. The world’s a better place.” – said Steve Jobs.
The problem with competition is that it takes away the requirement to set your own path, to invent your own method, to find a new way. – Seth Godin
And if it’s money, why compete with who has the most money, who can achieve the most money, or whatever it may be since there is plenty of money to make every single person rich in the world!
The wise billionaires out there don’t compete with each other, because if they did, they wouldn’t give it away so much of their billions.
I’m not interested in competing with anyone. I hope we all make it. – Erica Cook
If it’s a sport like bodybuilding, marathon, or any other sport out there, you shouldn’t even think of competing with each other but actually do your own best, enjoy the game and if you have practice enough and do in the hours needed, you become the best.
Can you see what I’m saying here?
Another example is on this website here ALFASTALLION®, I’m not here to compete with any other website, but I’m here to give out the best value information by doing my best to change the world around and make everyone live in harmony.
Therefore, yes we strive to be the #1 alpha male website and as long as I keep believing that it is the #1 top best, then it will be if it’s not already!
I’m just simply enjoying the process, always having positive vibes all the time and using my intuition to give out the far best information based on my knowledge, experience, and wisdom to help you be your best as well.
So in my point of view, competition or comparison doesn’t even matter !
Comparing yourself to others is an act of violence against your authentic self. – Lyania Vanzant
I don’t care what you do, it could be bull riding/rodeo where they’re not trying to compete with a muscular bull but are trying to do their best to stay on for those 8 seconds.
Instead of Trying To Compete or Compare, Do This Instead!
As I mentioned above, how about you just focus on yourself and focus on doing your own best and to enjoy the process/moments as much as you can!
That’s basically all!
When you do that, you’re already the #1 best because even though we as human beings are made from the same source/energy, each person is different in their own ways.
To me, in order to compete, we would have to be the same exact person in which there is no way that would happen.
Nobody can be you and nobody can be me or anyone else!
Comparison is the theft of joy. – Theodore Roosevelt
So basically, we can’t compare ourselves with each other since we are not the same. I have my own qualities, skills, talents, etc and you have your own qualities, skills, talents, etc, and so does everyone else.
Now what you really have to is to focus on getting better and better by each day! That’s all.
And that’s exactly what I do. My goal is to improve day in, day out, and focus on me, on myself, on my life, on what I do, and not on someone else, or some’s business, or someone’s life because none of that matters to me.
By improving yourself on a daily basis, by actually doing your own best and being as much positive as you can, that’s all you have to do!
Focus on your own goals, on your dreams, and on your life, not on someone else’s… Stop comparing and do your thing.
Again, if it’s not part of you, it doesn’t matter!
Don’t compare your life to others. There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time. – Unknown
The more you try to compete with someone else or with others, the harder it will actually be for you to succeed at whatever because you’re basically separating yourself from others.
And as I mentioned in the beginning, we are ONE.
So appreciate another person’s results, be inspired by others, be motivated and yes, you can see yourself doing what they do but actually better!
In this reality we all live in, there is no limitation. The only limitation is in your mind. If someone achieves a very “high” goal or as you may think it’s high, we all can achieve it even higher!
Let me give an example; my goal is to make at least $1 million dollars a day from my multiple business companies, real estate, stocks, and investments that I have.
My only competition is my potential. – Unknown
Now you may be thinking that’s a lot, but it’s not! That’s just your limiting beliefs. If you don’t know, billionaires out there are making way more than per day!
Based on the sources I found, Warren Buffet who is an investor and who just read all day and always looking out for opportunities to invest more and more, he’s making at least $7 million dollars a day!
When you compete with a person, you only have to be as good or better than the person to win. If you compete with yourself, there is no limitation to how good you can be. – Chu Chin-Ning
Now imagine Jeff Bezos who is the far richest man living on Earth in today’s date and age, as according to many sources out there, he makes over $8,961,384 million an HOUR.
Results of NO Competition Mindset!
The results are all based on each one of us!
What you think and believe that is possible, the Universe will always say YES and make it happen.
So as long as you’re doing your own best regardless of what it is, if it’s a sport, business, money, or anything, just remember that competition doesn’t exist!
As long as you focus on doing and being your own best by improving every single day, that’s all it matters!
There is no competition because no body can be me.
You’ll be surprised by how much success you can achieve from just forgetting about “competitors” or trying to compete with anyone out there!
Instead of competing with others which in my point of view is actually negative, how about you send good vibes by applauding their success and results, which will come back to you multiplied!
That’s what I do!
When I see someone so successful like theses billionaires out there, I become happy and proud of them with a heart full of gold, feelings of inspiration, and since they became a billionaire, why can’t we?
Or see famous and successful players out there, if they can do it, we can do it too but probably even better than them or differently.
I don’t care who it is, there will always be someone out there that does and can do it better!
Again, anything is possible in this world!
The ultimate victor in competition is derived from the inner satisfaction of knowing that you have done your best and that you have gotten the most out of what you had to give. – Howard Cosell
So in my point of view, all we have to do focus on ourselves, our lives, and anything that involves in our lives.
Do that, and forget all about competitors and competition since it’s negative in my eyes, and you’ll see how much you’ll rise up the sky!
Just remember, they are them, and you are who you are, you can’t be them and they can’t be you, so there is no competition, there is no comparison here.
Life is not a competition, life is about inspiring others so we can each reach our potential. – Kim Chase
Don’t ever in your life compare yourself with anyone in this world! Alphas males just don’t compare since they can’t be us.
Now if you really want how to achieve massive success in your life and it can be at anything, make sure to check out my post here where I’ll show you how you can follow our own intuition to gain fast and easy success!
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By the way, you have to know that you can’t have success without you doing something on a daily basis or taking a step forward each day, and here’s how my full day goes because we all need to wake up very early which is the #1 secret of all successful people out there!
Self-discipline is everything!
The only person you should try to be better than is who you were yesterday.