There are numerous things that could potentially mess up your life very badly

And I’m talking about it doesn’t matter where you’re currently at which if one of these things that I’m going to mention gets in the way, it can leave you in a hell hole.

For a fact, I know multi-millionaires that ended up being broke due to one single bad thing that they let get to them for a couple of months or years...

So the reason I want to show you all of these is that maybe you’re the next person and I’m here to help you before it’s too late!

Now don’t get me wrong, I have been there before where I lost everything and I mean I almost got homeless, which if it wasn’t for my mother to help me, I don’t even know where I would’ve been at today…

Therefore, let’s get to know what these “things” really are that have an impact to drown you completely regardless of how much money you have, how much success you have conquered, or how much material stuffs you have.

Keep reading!

1: Ego

Yes, the ego is extremely powerful where if you let it take over you and your life, you’re heading towards the wrong path.

I actually have a complete post here where I talk all about the ego and how it can be our worst enemy if we let it…

And the crazy thing is that majority of the population are guided by their own ego and that is why only a few percentages of folks out there are actually successful, rich, and wealthy because they don’t listen to their ego.

Which the opposite of the ego is our higher-self also known as our intuition and awareness.

If you can be aware of which one is trying to guide you on a daily basis, and if you choose higher-self guidance, then you’ll be heading towards the abundance path that the Universe/God wants us to go.

Now at the time that I lost everything several years ago, I had an extremely high ego and people seemed to hate me for no reason like I mean just by my presence, people would feel offensive and look at me strangely.

Yet, all I was doing was being a very confident alpha ‘stallion’ man, but since people will always judge us regardless of what we do, they thought that I was being “cocky” in their eyes.

We all messe up sometimes. Don’t forget all the good someone has done, just because they made a mistake. Everyone is learning and growing.

But I’m lucky enough to have found all this out and transformed me into the humble alpha male that I am today, which is why I’m here to help you so you avoid taking these nasty routes.

Moreover, just follow your intuition and don’t listen to the “monkey” voice in your mind known as the ego, or else it will ruin you.

2. Bad Friends or Certain Family Members

That’s right! One of the people that I thought I could trust was a so-called “best friend” who ended up betraying me and stole my pickup truck at the time as well as thousands of money up to about $200k.

And family members?

You won’t believe that some of my very close family members were the worse people in my life… Yet, not all!

So what I’m trying to say here is that you MUST watch out who the people in your life are!

I mean, they can act like they care about you, that they love you and all that, but the moment you turn your back towards them, they will do something bad or take something from you.

Again, these could even be your spouse, so-called “best friend”, or any family member, it doesn’t matter! Just can’t fully trust people in general.

To me, friends and family are basically just a “title” which not all of them will always be there for you regardless if you’re there for them when they most need help. Trust me, I’ve been there before!

If you don’t want your life to be ‘messed up’, don’t fool around with those who have messed up theirs. – Naopleon Hill

In fact, it is true that a stranger could be your biggest fan than someone who actually knows you. Can you see what I’m saying here?

Therefore, yes, be wise to choose who your circle are and always act as you trust them, but only trust your feelings/intuition because you never know how much they can backfire you badly.

3. Negativity

Now this one is something that a lot people are struggling with on a daily basis. Are you one of them? I bet so!

Negativity is out everywhere and as each day passes by, the more negative kinds of stuff we’re seeing… Yes, it just keeps getting worse!

And that is why it super important that you do something about it which can include turn off all the news/media channels, get away from social networks, and cut negative people far away from your life regardless of who they are.

If someone messes up, let it go. If they keep messing up, let them go.

Negative people always have something bad to complain about and they seem to never be able to see the good side of things and that is bad since their energy can get to you very fast and easy.

So look for ways to be 100% positive, make your circle small, and focus only on positive thoughts to have a positive life.

in fact, to help you out, start your day with meditating on a daily basis for at least 15-30 minutes, and that way you then can control your thoughts as the day goes by.

Last, focus on gratitude, love and feel all the elevated emotions. Don’t let the outside circumstance get to you which you only have control of your own self, not the outside world.

4. Always Listening to Others

This is a big one because if you listen to people, you’re not going to get anywhere in life since the majority of the people don’t want to see us doing better than them.

And that’s a fact!

If you were to tell someone your plan, you can rest assured that they could do anything to stop you from getting it…

What screws up the most in life is the picture in our hed of how it’s supposed to be.

As I said, there is about only 5% of people that truly want us to succeed in life which these are the same people that are doing better than us. The rest are more likely failing in life and they surely want you to stay at their level as well.

I remember one time I had a girlfriend and I thought she wanted to really be by my side, but everything that I told her that I was going to do, she would try to put things in my head to not do it regardless of what it was.

Yet, she always tried to show me a different type of person and when I noticed that listening to her was a bad idea, that’s when I left her and my life started to change once again.

So basically, what I have to say is shut your mouth and don’t ever tell anyone your plans but do them in silence and let the results speak for itself.

5. Being Materialistic

Talking about being materialistic, I remember one time all I wanted was to buy cars, a good house, the best clothes and all of that.

And guess what?

I did buy it all at the time which I put all my money into material stuffs, but then I lost it all which as I mentioned before, my so-called “best friend” stole like almost everything that I had.

Life will be boring if you never mess up.

Therefore, I was left out with nothing, zero in my wallet and since I was an extremely materialist person, I got very depressed and it took me a few years to get out of this hell hole.

And I’m glad I did and that was a life-lesson to me that I will never let it happen again!

So if you’re a materialistic person, you can rest assured that your money is not in good hands unless you change yourself.

For a fact, the reason why rich and wealthy people have so much money is because they definitely were not materialistic people at first when they were heading towards success.

Sure, after you have so much money, you can buy this and that, but watch out because you can lose everything in a second.

6. Bad Addictions

Being addictive to anything is a tough one!

And the truth is that you can literally be addicted to basically anything in this life, I like I mean I used to be addicted to sex, marijuana and alcohol.

I remember that I wanted to have sex at least 3 times per day, and if I didn’t get it, I would be so frustrated which at this point in my early adulthood, I actually thought that I was going to have to be a pornstar!

And yes, I used to smoke on a daily basis which I never smoked a lot but took a hit every 2 hours or so to maintain my high.


Yes, I would go out to drink every single day at the time but this was only like 3 beers on the weekdays and hard liquor on the weekends.

So sure, you may not consider it as an addiction since it wasn’t a lot but to me, it was because I couldn’t stop doing it.

Forget the mistake. Remember the lesson.

And in today’s date and age, I feel like I’m addicted to work!

That’s right, I believe this is the only “good” addiction that I will accept to be okay and that is if you’re putting massive amounts of hours into your own business, and not for someone else.

That is because the more we put in the work, the higher milestone we’ll reach!

So what I’m trying to say is that depending on the addictions which 99% of them are bad, you should check yourself out and do something about it since life is passing by and will leave you in a hell hole until you do something to stop it.

7. Laziness

Being a lazy person sucks a lot, plus it is actually a sin to the creator of the Universe.

Laziness will take you to poverty and leave you there forever. Yes, it has the potential to leave you homeless and die off hunger!

I’m telling you if you’re a lazy man or woman, then you’re not going to get anywhere in life because it is our actions to create success.

And this even means if you’re already a successful, rich and wealthy person, if you create a lazy habit, you could end up losing it all because there will always be someone trying to outwork you.

You can’t lose confidence in yourself, or you’ve lost already. When you get knocked down, you’ve got to keep getting back up. – Tim Tebow

I personally only felt laziness when I used to be depressed and what I wanted to do was stay in bed all day long and do nothing with my life.

And as time passed by, I noticed that I missed a lot of things because of this bad evil habit called laziness.

But as a fact, being a lazy person is actually a CHOICE! That’s right, you can choose to feel lazy or to feel motivated and take action instantly. It all depends on you!

8. Not Believing in Yourself or a God

If you don’t believe in what you’re doing, who do you expect to believe in you?

No-one will…

You first have to believe in your own potential or believe in a source of higher supreme God out there because if you don’t, then you’re left out with nothing.

Believing is just as powerful as taking action!

You have to believe that you can reach your goal, that you can accomplish whatever it is that you want and that you can become the person you want first before anyone believes in you.

Either that, or believe in God which that will work the same way or better!

It will never be perfect. Just make it work. – Life

I personally believe in myself but I also have a strong belief in a One-true God spirit that is inside each one of us since we are all part of the same universe, we are all one and we are all sons and daughters of a higher source out there that we don’t physically know.

Some people just believe in the law of attraction which they call the Universe and it’s the same thing, just different titles.

So make sure you have some type of beliefs of yourself or else, you’ll lose in life!

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